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Just call me Ash

Thoughts on mental health, neurodiversity, polyamory and kink

Toxic stoicism

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On my Fetlife timeline today there was a post by a woman asking for help with a troublesome new partner of her ex.

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Pumped up kicks

Fiction, Horror
Content Warning: Gun violence, gore
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Lucy

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Content Warning: Mental health problems
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I don’t get to opt out

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A little while ago I was on a very lovely first date with some really nice conversation (some really lovely messing around too, but that’s a story for another day!). During the conversation I said something along the lines of “Pretty much all my friends are queer, and I’m the odd hetero out. Some times I wish I could just become honorary queer and distance myself from all the toxic BS going on with lots of cishet men.”

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Full Disclosure

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We have had this rule, ever since we started. It was mostly a result of both of us dealing with exes who would mangle the truth, hide things or flat-out lie. The rule is very simple: say what is on your mind. Or as we like to more aptly call it:

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