Happy Boxing Day!
Or, as we call it in the Netherlands, the second day of Christmas. Over here...
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Ashtar Deza
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December 26, 2023 ·
2 mins read
The Bodycount Riddle
Slowly you approach the Sphinx. It was a long journey, but the famed treasure is...
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Ashtar Deza
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November 29, 2023 ·
3 mins read
The Art of Doing Nothing
As some of you may know, I’m a pretty devoted Bullet Journal user. It’s one...
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Ashtar Deza
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November 22, 2023 ·
8 mins read
Book talk: the day after Halloween
I’d told myself that I’d give my book a fair shot by marketing it until...
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Ashtar Deza
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November 01, 2023 ·
7 mins read
So, I'm probably heterosexual, but definitely not straight.
Wait, what? Isn’t that the same? No, I’d like to argue that it isn’t.
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Ashtar Deza
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October 29, 2023 ·
4 mins read
My first guest blog: Cold Stone
Less of a post, than an announcement: I wrote my first guest blog!
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Ashtar Deza
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October 27, 2023 ·
1 min read
Emotional Bleed
This week has been amazing and awful at the same time. Last weekend, my kitten...
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Ashtar Deza
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September 30, 2023 ·
5 mins read
Clippy
My mom called me today to ask how I was doing. It was so good...
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Ashtar Deza
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September 28, 2023 ·
8 mins read
That moment of perfect compersion
I’ve written a lot about my fear and insecurities in connection with poly, so today,...
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Ashtar Deza
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September 21, 2023 ·
1 min read
That one time in the elevator
When I was in my late 20s, my partner and I visited Yaoicon in San...
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Ashtar Deza
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September 09, 2023 ·
3 mins read